Saturday, February 27, 2010
Two Reasons Churches Collapse
1. Churches that intentionally become insular and inward focused die. Sad to say, but the people practically eat one another alive.
2. Churches with a strong external focus on something that is wrong with the culture, but with a mindset that 'we have to clean this up so people can be saved.' This attitude tends toward deadly forms of legalism, and misses the point of the Gospel: people need to be saved by God, and then He will clean them up.
Lies Satan Wants You to Believe About Suffering
1. You're all alone in your suffering.
2. Suffering is pointless and without purpose.
3. Suffering means God doesn't really love you after all.
4. You wouldn't be suffering if you were a real Christian.
Can you think of others?
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Men, Don't Settle Short
27 This is the account of Terah.
Terah became the father of Abram, Nahor and Haran. And Haran became the father of Lot. 28 While his father Terah was still alive, Haran died in Ur of the Chaldeans, in the land of his birth. 29 Abram and Nahor both married. The name of Abram's wife was Sarai, and the name of Nahor's wife was Milcah; she was the daughter of Haran, the father of both Milcah and Iscah. 30 Now Sarai was barren; she had no children.
31 Terah took his son Abram, his grandson Lot son of Haran, and his daughter-in-law Sarai, the wife of his son Abram, and together they set out from Ur of the Chaldeans to go to Canaan. But when they came to Haran, they settled there.
32 Terah lived 205 years, and he died in Haran. (Genesis 11:27-32)
Look again at verse 31: they set out from Ur to go to Canaan, and they settled in Haran.
They settled short of the goal. And Terah died short of the goal.
In chapter 12 we'll see how God calls Abram to leave his family, leave Haran, and go to Canaan. We don't see in the Genesis 11 account that God specifically spoke to Terah, but it's clear it was his ambition to leave Ur (one of the most important and sophisticated cities of that time) and go to Canaan. But Terah does not make it there.
Maybe Haran was good enough. Maybe there was a picture-perfect homestead there. Maybe Canaan was simply more difficult to get to. (Check this map, it's quite a distance further!) Perhaps there were comfortable distractions in Haran. Perhaps there was a magician or healer in Haran that Terah thought could make Sarai fertile. And we can infer that Terah stayed in Haran a long time -- see Gen 12:5 for notes about the family accumulating possessions and people.
Let's be clear: God has his sovereign plans, and had plans for Abram to receive His blessings. We aren't told what might have happened had Terah taken his family all the way to Canaan.
We simply don't know why Terah settled, but he settled short. And that's the legacy of Terah.
Men, let's recommit today not to settle short.
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
When You Drop Your Cellphone in the Toilet…
(This is a real-life example – I wish I were making it up.)
When you are surprised by a more-flesh-than-should-be-
If someone comes into your school or church or business site and threatens to hurt someone else, you may have only seconds to take action or take advantage of opportunities to protect others.
The key to all these situations is to pre-decide what you will do. I’m going after the cell phone. I will bounce my eyes away from images I shouldn’t see. I will attack the gun-wielding mass murderer or distract him by throwing something at him, since dying is not the worst thing that can happen to me, and I may save some lives.
What else do you need to pre-decide? What do you need to help your children pre-decide?
Sunday, February 21, 2010
Peter's Story
The Early Church from Granger Community on Vimeo.
HT: LeadingSmart
Friday, February 19, 2010
Mindmapping
I use mind maps quite a bit, just for me as I read and think and plan, but also to create presentations for others. Some people have seen my maps and would like to do this too, but need a little help getting started.
The main thing to remember: you can't produce a bad mind map. They are tools for you to use. Play with them, move things around, expand and collapse, draw connectors -- that's the point. Don't get hung up or self-conscious.
Suggested resources:
How to make a mind map
How to use mind maps to solve problems
(There are many YouTube videos on different kinds of mind maps, usually to promote a particular piece of software. Just search for "mind maps"and start exploring.
A short tutorial for using Freemind (which is one of the best free tools for mind mapping)
A series of tutorial for MindManager Pro from MindJet (this is my favorite tool; you can get a free 30 day trial version)
Two newer free software tools are
Xmind
Freeplane
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
Men vs. Boys
Monday, February 15, 2010
Unfolding the Napkin
One of the most intriguing and useful books I've read in months is Dan Roam's Unfolding the Napkin. The subtitle gives you the value of this book: "The hands-on method for solving complex problems with simple pictures."
For years I've been an inveterate doodler. One friend at work jokes with me that "it hasn't been a meeting until Glenn gets up to the whiteboard. Maybe he likes to sniff the dry-erase markers."
The book is actually like a workshop. It's helpful to practice the drawing process along with the author.
The primary methodology is built on the FACT that our minds like pictures. Pictures communicate. Pictures are memorable. Pictures -- especially simply pictures -- engage our intellect and imagination.
I really liked Roam's process of breaking down problems into 6 elements (who/what, how much, when, where, how, why) and then using a SQVID process (it's an acronym) to figure out how to work through problems and present solutions to different types of stakeholders. Brilliant stuff! I think even a lot of the Ph.D.'s I know would appreciate this, and I'm confident that most teenagers would instantly get it.
Roam also gives at the end some very practical advice about tools. Nope, you don't need elaborate software, even for a computer intensive group that loves complicated software.
For me, this goes back into the reread in 2 months pile after I've practiced with pictures.
If you're a leader or teacher, you need this book. What I should say is, you need this capability to use pictures to communicate and solve problems.
Sunday, February 14, 2010
The Puritans and Sex: Happy Valentine's Day!
Saturday, February 13, 2010
While I'm Waiting
Listen to it here.
While I'm Waiting
I'm waiting
I'm waiting on You, Lord
And I am hopeful
I'm waiting on You, Lord
Though it is painful
But patiently, I will wait
I will move ahead, bold and confident
Takeing every step in obedience
While I'm waiting
I will serve You
While I'm waiting
I will worship
While I'm waiting
I will not faint
I'll be running the race
Even while I wait
I'm waiting
I'm waiting on You, Lord
And I am peaceful
I'm waiting on You, Lord
Though it's not easy
But faithfully, I will wait
Yes, I will wait
I will serve You while I'm waiting
I will worship while I'm waiting
I will serve You while I'm waiting
I will worship while I'm waiting
I will serve you while I'm waiting
I will worship while I'm waiting on You, Lord
Thursday, February 11, 2010
Got a Kindle? (Or free Kindle reader on PC?) Great Free Books Available!
- Open up the Internet browser on your Kindle, by going to the Home screen, pressing Menu, choosing Experimental and then choosing Basic Web.
- Enter this URL on your Kindle browser:.gutenberg.org/browse/scores/top
- Either browse or search to find a book you like.
- Click on "Mobipocket/Kindle to download it to your device.
- After you accept the download, the book should appear in your Home screen.
Identifying Idols
So how do you identify an idol? Here are four idol identifiers:
1) What consumes your thoughts? Your daydreams are idol clues. If it's something you think about more than God then it may be an idol.
2) What bad habits do you struggle with? Your addictions are idol clues. An idol is something you cannot control. It controls you.
3) What do you spend too much money on? Your spending habits are idol clues. Where your treasure is, there will your heart be also!
4) What produces your strongest emotions? Your intense emotions are idol clues. If you want to identify an idol, all you have to do is identify your emotional attachments.
Tuesday, February 09, 2010
Get Ready and Stay Ready to Die
2010 might be your year of release. It might be mine. One year from today, we might be with the Lord. Better by far.
How to get ready and stay ready?
One, let’s die fully reconciled. Are we clear with every brother? “Strive for peace with everyone” (Hebrews 12:14).
Two, let’s die fully consecrated. Are we set apart to God? “Strive for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord” (Hebrews 12:14).
Three, let’s die fully forgiven. Are we enjoying the grace of God? “See to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of God” (Hebrews 12:15).
Four, let’s die in sweetness. Is any resentment spoiling our hearts? “See to it that no root of bitterness springs up and causes trouble, and by it many become defiled” (Hebrews 12:15).
Five, let’s die in purity. Is the blessing of God more savory to us than the pleasures of the body? “See to it that no one is sexually immoral or unholy like Esau, who sold his birthright for a single meal” (Hebrews 12:16).
The battle rages. Let’s be ready to die at any time. Our moment will come.
Sunday, February 07, 2010
Are Christians Required to Tithe?
It's a common question: "Are Christians required to tithe?" Let's be good students of the Word and think through this together. (By the way, this might make a really nice lesson for your students.)
- Everything we have is God's, not just X%. (See Psalm 24:1)
- We will be held accountable for how we steward what has been entrusted to us (Luke 16:12; 19:11-27)
- We should support church leaders and those who minister to us (see Galatians 6:6 and 1 Tim 5:17-19)
- We should help the poor, including widows and orphans (many passages)
- We should support missions outreach (many passages)
- The tithe to support the Levites (see Lev 27:30,32; Num 18:24)
- The festival tithe (see Deut 12:11-12)
- The welfare tithe (see Deut 14:28-29) [This model provided for the whole community without any further government functions in an agrarian culture.]
Friday, February 05, 2010
Proving You Don't Exist
The story is told of an atheist philosophy professor who performed a parlor trick each term to convince his students that there is no God. "Anyone who believes in God is a fool, " he said. "If God existed, he could stop this piece of chalk from hitting the ground and breaking. Such a simple task to prove he is God, and yet he can't do it." The professor then dropped the chalk and watched it shatter dramatically on the classroom floor.
If you meet anyone who tries this silly trick, take the roof off. Apply the professor's logic in a test of your own existence. Tell the onlookers you will prove you don't exist.
Have someone take a piece of chalk and hold it above your outstreatched palm. Explain that if you really exist, you would be able to accomplish the simple task of catching the chalk. When he drops the chalk, let it fall to the ground and shatter. Then announce, "I guess this proves I do not exist. If you believe in me, you're a fool."
Clearly, this chalk trick tells you nothing about God. The only thing it is capable of showing is that if God does exist, he is not a circus animal who can be teased into jumping through hoops to appease the whim of foolish people.
- Greg Koukl, Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions, p.150, 151
Wednesday, February 03, 2010
Believing What You See
Tuesday, February 02, 2010
Book Review: Linchpin
- The book length could have been trimmed. This may be Godin's longest book. Given the complexity of some of the ideas (like strategies for overcoming what Godin calls Lizard Brain), I suspect he felt he needed to say more. It's not that he says bad things, but usually he writes more sparingly -- and then fosters a lot of follow-up via his blog. With this book it feels more like he wanted to put *everything* in it.
- At times the writing lacks flow. It feels somewhat like a sequential series of blog posts and tweets. (That does make it easier to dip into and get some information quickly.)
- Some readers are going to want a 'what-do-I-do-next?' plan and will likely feel frustrated at the end when it's not there. That desire misses Godin's key thesis altogether, but the book does feel abrupt in its ending.
Monday, February 01, 2010
This Wasn't For Me--Until I Started Using It
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You know I'm a big proponent of using questions in Bible studies and lessons. (I even wrote a book on it!) Jesus taught with questions, story, and dialogue and so should you.
I generally don't have problems coming up with questions to use in Bible lessons. But many people write me and ask for help with this.
Someone in my family gave me the Serendipity Bible for Personal and Small Group Study for Christmas.
My first polite thought was "Well, that's nice, but I don't need that." A few days later I picked it up and started leafing through it. I was impressed at how well organized this is for small group leaders -- and for any type of small group leaders. The questions are actually very good.
Here's some description about the Bible:
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"It provides Bible study leaders with ready-made, life-changing discussion questions on any passage of Scripture. In-text study questions help groups open discussion, dig deeper into the meaning of a passage, and reflect on life application. The 200 studies and 60 course plans address the needs of ten different groups, including men, women, singles, youth, and more. With the ready-made studies in the Serendipity Bible, the only thing a group leader has to prepare in the coffee!
Features include: • Thousands of penetrating study questions • 60 felt-need course plans for ten different kinds of groups • 16 topical study courses offer basic and deeper question tracks for study • 200 Bible story questionnaires offer another study alternative • Separate studies for each book of the Bible • Lectionary-based Bible studies for churches that follow the church year calendar • 200 general group studies address the needs of ten different groups, including men, women, singles, youth, recovery, and more • "Open-Dig-Reflect" questions help you discover each other’s hearts and apply God’s Word to your life • 32 two-color introduction pages help you use this Bible more effectively."
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I heartily recommend this as a resource for Bible teachers and small group leaders.
I'm using it as a resource for my devotion and lesson prep the way I use commentaries. I spend a lot of time in the Bible text itself, chewing it over and over, and praying for insights. Then I will look up that same passage in this Serendipity Bible and check out the questions they have lined up for that passage. I'm usually picking up at least one really good idea with this approach.
I haven't yet tried any of their recommended courses (which take you topically through multiple passages of Scripture), but they look promising.
Teachers and small group leaders, add this to your resource library.