Christian encouragement for men -- an evangelical perspective on current events, Scripture, and coming up the husband and father learning curve. Boldness without gentleness is tyranny; gentleness without boldness is not Christlike. Jesus was both tough and tender.
Sunday, January 31, 2010
Allah Not Equivalent to Yahweh
This is a good approach to answering the question, "Isn't the God of the Koran the same as the God of the Bible?"
Friday, January 29, 2010
My Name is Graven on His Hands

Wednesday, January 27, 2010
What Is Necessary
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It isn’t necessary for me to have a lot of money. Nor that I be admired or thought wise by the world’s standards. Nor that I be healthy or live my years in comfort. These things may or may not happen to me. They are given or withheld by the Lord, in his wisdom.
What is necessary is that I be humble. That my relationship with God deepen with age. That my life choices demonstrate I am a follower of Christ. That I submit to His choice as to whether I am allowed to serve by activity or by suffering.
It isn’t vital that I live a long life. But it is extremely important that, while I live, my choices are based on what God wants. (Thus I resist desires that oppose this high goal.)
God’s Word guides me and convicts me when I’m in error, so I can freely ask Him for what I need, without worrying about asking wrongly.
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This comes from John Stanford's wonderful AO Notes blog -- I recommend you subscribe.
Monday, January 25, 2010
How Religious Is Your State?
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Tour of the Universe
I continue to be convicted that we need an ever larger view of our God and His might power. It stirs my soul to watch this animation. All things are held together in Christ!
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Book Review: The Trellis and the Vine

Book Review: The Trellis and the Vine
Authors: Colin Marshall and Tony Payne
The subtitle of this book is "The Ministry Mind-Shift That Changes Everything"
My observation is that God works over time to prepare a man's mind and heart to receive a message, then brings the message forward in a powerful way and plants it in fertile soil.
This book is like this for me. I've been wrestling with ideas for our church and developing ministry leaders and administrating all the disciple-making and missionary-launching work that I am convinced God has called us to. My senior pastor and fellow elders have been praying for direction and talking about these issues for some time. What does the personal expression of the Great Commission look like for our local church fellowship at this time, and for the future?
And so the message contained in "The Trellis and the Vine" landed in fertile soil.
Marshall and Payne outline what some will perceive as radical and "you-can't-be-serious!" ideas here, and carefully point out they are not new ideas at all. I find their biblical exposition of disciplemaking and ministry very strong.
They advocate ministry mindset changes:
From running programs to building people
From running events to training people
From using people to growing people
From filling gaps to training new workers
From solving problems to helping people make progress
From clinging to ordained ministry to developing team leadership
From focusing on church polity to forging ministry partnerships
From relying on training institutions to establishing local training
From focusing on immediate pressures to aiming for long-term expansion
From engaging in management to engaging in ministry
From seeking church growth to desiring gospel growth
The title comes from distinguishing between work that builds a trellis (which only has the function of supporting the growth of the vine) and ministry work that fosters growth of the vine. On page 39 they write "However, despite the almost limitless number of ontexts in which it might happen, what happens in the same: a Christian brings a truth from God's Word to someone else, praying that God would make that word bear fruit through the inward working on his Spirit. That's vine work. Everything else is trellis."
They don't diminish Sunday morning congregational worship or preaching, but they do argue that it is insufficient. Indeed, they argue for more depth! I like their statement that "sermonettes produce Christianettes."
The authors put forward very practical suggestions on implementing a highly-relational training effort that develops people with doctrine, character, and skill to minister to others -- not plugging holes in your church gaps, but identifying the opportunities to build a ministry around their strengths and connections to others.
I highly recommend this book. I hope it gets a wide reading and a lot of attention. I pray that the message of this book is actually implemented in thousands of churches.
Right now this is the only place you can order "The Trellis and the Vine" online.
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Best Quote on Change I've Seen in Ages
Here's the best quote on change I've seen in ages:
“If you don't like change, you're going to like irrelevance even less.”
Monday, January 18, 2010
Happy Birthday, Mr. Lee!

Sunday, January 17, 2010
Countering the Hollywood-promoted Pantheism
"Traditional theism has to wrestle with the problem of evil: if God is good, why does he allow suffering and death? But Nature is suffering and death. Its harmonies require violence. Its “circle of life” is really a cycle of mortality. And the human societies that hew closest to the natural order aren’t the shining Edens of James Cameron’s fond imaginings. They’re places where existence tends to be nasty, brutish and short. Religion exists, in part, precisely because humans aren’t at home amid these cruel rhythms. We stand half inside the natural world and half outside it. We’re beasts with self-consciousness, predators with ethics, mortal creatures who yearn for immortality."
Help your family think through these issues.
Friday, January 15, 2010
Risk to Create Ideas
But you still need to have good and great ideas in the first place. I believe human imagination is what sets us apart from every other part of Earthly creation, a key aspect of how we're made in the image of God.
The best approach to creating good and great ideas is to generate LOTS of ideas, including bad ones, and then be discerning about what to act upon. This means taking risks.
I like this from Seth Godin:
"The problem is that you can't have good ideas unless you're willing to generate a lot of bad ones....
Someone asked me where I get all my good ideas, explaining that it takes him a month or two to come up with one and I seem to have more than that. I asked him how many bad ideas he has every month. He paused and said, "none."
And there, you see, is the problem."
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
Matt Chandler on His Personal Walk with Christ
Insightful comments here, well worth your time. Be intentional with your walk, brothers!
P.S. Matt Chandler was recently diagnosed with a malignant brain tumor and is undergoing chemo and radiation treatments. Pray for Matt, his family, and his church.
Monday, January 11, 2010
Does Your School Educate Your Child?
Have you wrestled with the question of how well your children are being educated?
A friend steered me to this speech by John Taylor Gatto, "Why Schools Don't Educate." He gave this speech, amazingly, on the occasion of being awarded Teacher of the Year.
I read it through, was very impressed with his analysis, but didn't catch the original date at first. It's June 1990. Almost 20 years ago!
I encourage you to read the whole speech transcript. One thing I appreciated is that he doesn't stop at dissecting the problems, but provides several ideas that would genuinely help.
Saturday, January 09, 2010
Why Networks Do Not Equal Community

There is a lot of talk and print these days about networks and networking. From a mathematical perspective, networks are real, powerful, and tend to be underestimated. Network effects often surprise us because by default we tend think in linear fashion. Technology helps us create networks of people,
Let me narrow our focus to people networks. These are the kinds of questions people ask about people networks:
What's the size of your network? (How many people do you have following your Twitter feed or blog posts or Facebook wall? How many associates do you have on LinkedIn?)
What's the extent of your network? (Do you have many people in your address book who live in different countries, work in different industries, represent different organizations?)
How can you use your network? (Can you get quickly get answers by posting questions on Twitter? Can you connect to the right people who can help you? Could you find a new job opening through your network? Will you network give you money if you ask for it?)
Note what drives those questions: pride, comparison, greed, selfish interests. Yes, there are plenty of people who understand that the way to build a people network is to provide them value, but the desired end-results are still selfish.
I believe a common misconception today is to think networks of people are communities. Writers and speakers use the language of community when describing networks. "My tweeps give me a lot of help and support." "I've never met most of the people I know except through Facebook, but they love me."
Networks are not the same as communities (though communities may in part be supported by networking technology.
Here's a suggested test for community: a community serves the weak, the unsuccessful, the inarticulate, the ordinary.
Network success gravitates towards whatever defines success for that network. People like to associate with those they admire or want to emulate or find entertaining. (Consider the celebrity effect.) But networks dissipate rapidly for anything less.
Another test: community has an ongoing sense of history. Networks tend to exist in a non-real ever-present. The past is meaningful to community, and helps shape the future. Network past is irrelevant.
Community, because it is rooted in service to one another, continues forward under all the circumstances in which networks dissolve. In truth, community often becomes stronger in those circumstances.
Don't fall into the trap of mistaking networks for community.
Thursday, January 07, 2010
Red Skelton Explains the Pledge of Allegiance
This is a terrific, inspiring example of teaching the meaning of words! At first through I thought he left out two words; watch all the way through and you'll see I was wrong.
Wednesday, January 06, 2010
Airport Screening -- Learn from a Positive Example
Tuesday, January 05, 2010
Read Your Bible So You Benefit
Monday, January 04, 2010
Guard Your Heart!

Ron Edmondson has seven excellent rules for protecting his marriage and his ministry:
I never meet alone with a woman besides my wife (or mother).
I try not to conduct very personal or intimate conversations with women.
When talking to couples I focus my visual connection mostly on the man and not his wife.
I try not to stare at women.
I spend lots of time with my wife.
I try to always remember my boys.
I love my church.
Read the details here.
Anything you would add? What's been helpful for you?
Sunday, January 03, 2010
How Does the Bible Measure Pi?
Saturday, January 02, 2010
The Biblical StoryLine
Not only is this ideal for those of you going on the read-the-Bible-in-30-days challenge with me, but this is a fabulous teaching tool for your family. Ground them in this storyline, and then they'll be better equipped to study the Bible as a whole!
Here's the summary:
Creation by Word | Genesis 1 and 2 |
The Fall | Genesis 3 |
First Revelation of Redemption | Genesis 4–11 |
Abraham Our Father | Genesis 12–50 |
Exodus: Our Pattern of Redemption | Exodus 1–15 |
New Life: Gift and Task | Exodus 16–40; Leviticus |
The Temptation in the Wilderness | Numbers; Deuteronomy |
Into the Good Land | Joshua; Judges; Ruth |
God’s Rule in God’s Land | 1 and 2 Samuel; 1 Kings 1–10; 1 Chronicles; 2 Chronicles 1–9 |
The Fading Shadow | 1 Kings 11–22; 2 Kings |
There Is a New Creation | Jeremiah; Ezekiel; Daniel; Esther |
The Second Exodus | Ezra; Nehemiah; Haggai |
The New Creation for Us | Matthew; Mark; Luke; John |
The New Creation in Us Initiated | Acts |
The New Creation in Us Now | New Testament Epistles |
The New Creation Consummated | The New Testament |
Read through details here.
Yo, Joe!

Much of the world has moved on from Christmas, and I'm still thinking about Joseph.